"Maybe the Dalai Lama is the only person who is totally honest, and even with him, he's skillful, not to hurt anybody. He's skillful"
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The interesting hinge is the repetition of “skillful.” Gere isn’t praising blunt truth; he’s praising calibrated truth. The subtext: honesty without harm isn’t purity, it’s technique. In an era that often fetishizes “telling it like it is,” he’s arguing for a gentler mastery - a kind of moral aikido where the point isn’t to win with truth, but to land it without shattering the listener. It’s a subtle rebuke to the macho mythology of candor that mistakes cruelty for authenticity.
Context matters here: Gere’s long public association with Tibetan Buddhism and the Dalai Lama turns the quote into cultural positioning as much as spiritual admiration. It’s Hollywood’s best-case pitch for Buddhist ethics: not retreat from the world, but emotional intelligence as practice. The quip also reveals a performer’s instinct: truth is a delivery problem. The Dalai Lama becomes the ideal communicator - someone who can be “totally honest” and still keep the room with him. That’s charisma, yes, but it’s also compassion as strategy.
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| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Gere, Richard. (2026, February 18). Maybe the Dalai Lama is the only person who is totally honest, and even with him, he's skillful, not to hurt anybody. He's skillful. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/maybe-the-dalai-lama-is-the-only-person-who-is-71826/
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Gere, Richard. "Maybe the Dalai Lama is the only person who is totally honest, and even with him, he's skillful, not to hurt anybody. He's skillful." FixQuotes. February 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/maybe-the-dalai-lama-is-the-only-person-who-is-71826/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Maybe the Dalai Lama is the only person who is totally honest, and even with him, he's skillful, not to hurt anybody. He's skillful." FixQuotes, 18 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/maybe-the-dalai-lama-is-the-only-person-who-is-71826/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.







