"Maybe we could’ve been friends, if I met you in another life"
About this Quote
The real sting lands in “if I met you in another life.” That’s pop romanticism with a modern defense mechanism. It lets her honor whatever was real without reopening negotiations, because another life is the safest possible distance. No follow-up texts, no “let’s try again,” no messy accountability. Just a clean, cinematic container for regret. The line also flatters both parties: you were worth knowing, I was capable of caring, the timing was the villain. It’s a gentler way to say, “You’re not my person,” while still keeping the warmth of “you mattered.”
In Sabrina Carpenter’s lane of glossy, diaristic pop, this kind of phrasing fits the post-relationship era where closure is aestheticized and boundaries are marketed as maturity. The subtext is control: she’s narrating the end on her terms, offering a dignified exit ramp instead of a door slam. It works because it’s emotionally legible, quotable, and just ambiguous enough to sound like mercy while functioning as a final no.
Quote Details
| Topic | Heartbreak |
|---|---|
| Source | Song: "because i liked a boy" (alternate lyric commonly cited; official release: "Because I Liked a Boy") (2022), Emails I Can’t Send |
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Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Carpenter, Sabrina. (2026, January 26). Maybe we could’ve been friends, if I met you in another life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/maybe-we-couldve-been-friends-if-i-met-you-in-184543/
Chicago Style
Carpenter, Sabrina. "Maybe we could’ve been friends, if I met you in another life." FixQuotes. January 26, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/maybe-we-couldve-been-friends-if-i-met-you-in-184543/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Maybe we could’ve been friends, if I met you in another life." FixQuotes, 26 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/maybe-we-couldve-been-friends-if-i-met-you-in-184543/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.









