"Memory is the way we keep telling ourselves our stories - and telling other people a somewhat different version of our stories"
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The intent feels characteristically Munrovian: to demystify the self without flattening it. Her fiction is packed with lives that look ordinary until a small recollection detonates the present. Here, memory becomes an ethical instrument and a survival strategy. To ourselves, we craft a story that lets us live with what we did, what happened to us, what we failed to do. To others, we craft the version that will be tolerated, admired, forgiven, or simply understood without too much friction. "Somewhat" is a careful needle: not a total lie, not pure confession, but calibrated disclosure.
Context matters. Munro's work, rooted in small-town Canadian social worlds, is obsessed with how reputation, gendered expectations, and class-coded decorum pressure people into narration as camouflage. The quote's subtext is that identity isn't discovered through memory; it's negotiated through it, scene by scene, audience by audience.
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Munro, Alice. (2026, January 15). Memory is the way we keep telling ourselves our stories - and telling other people a somewhat different version of our stories. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/memory-is-the-way-we-keep-telling-ourselves-our-160930/
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Munro, Alice. "Memory is the way we keep telling ourselves our stories - and telling other people a somewhat different version of our stories." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/memory-is-the-way-we-keep-telling-ourselves-our-160930/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Memory is the way we keep telling ourselves our stories - and telling other people a somewhat different version of our stories." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/memory-is-the-way-we-keep-telling-ourselves-our-160930/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.




