"Men are like the earth and we are the moon; we turn always one side to them, and they think there is no other, because they don't see it - but there is"
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What makes the line bite is how calmly it describes a structural problem as a simple optical error. “They think there is no other” captures the arrogance of a worldview built from partial access. Schreiner isn’t arguing that women are mysterious by nature; she’s arguing that men’s confidence is produced by what women have learned to withhold. The unseen side exists not as mystique, but as protected interiority: anger, ambition, intellect, erotic agency, political judgment. Things that become dangerous when exposed to an audience trained to punish them.
Context matters: Schreiner wrote in an era when women’s legal and economic personhood was sharply limited, and when the “ideal woman” was defined by legibility - purity, compliance, transparency. Her feminist work insisted that this legibility was a trap. The line reads like a warning to men and a coded reassurance to women: your hidden side is not a defect. It’s evidence of a self that refuses to be reduced to what the dominant gaze can comfortably comprehend.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Schreiner, Olive. (2026, January 16). Men are like the earth and we are the moon; we turn always one side to them, and they think there is no other, because they don't see it - but there is. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-are-like-the-earth-and-we-are-the-moon-we-105395/
Chicago Style
Schreiner, Olive. "Men are like the earth and we are the moon; we turn always one side to them, and they think there is no other, because they don't see it - but there is." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-are-like-the-earth-and-we-are-the-moon-we-105395/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Men are like the earth and we are the moon; we turn always one side to them, and they think there is no other, because they don't see it - but there is." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-are-like-the-earth-and-we-are-the-moon-we-105395/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.










