"Men are so willing to respect anything that bores them"
About this Quote
The gendered bite matters. Coming from an actress whose intelligence was routinely discounted, the line reads like a counter-punch to a world that demanded she be charming, light, and endlessly watchable while granting authority to men who could afford to be dull. It’s not just that men respect boring things; it’s that the things men control - institutions, gatekept culture, "serious" conversation - often reward a performance of boredom. You can almost hear the meeting rooms, the lectures, the critical reviews: if it makes you yawn, it must be art; if it makes you feel, it must be fluff.
There’s also a self-protective edge. Monroe understood that entertainment is feminized and therefore suspect, while gravitas is masculinized and therefore safe. The quote exposes respect as social theater: boredom becomes a costume for authority, and authority becomes a way to dismiss anyone who refuses to wear it.
Quote Details
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| Source | Evidence: I have noticed since that men usually leave married women alone, and are inclined to treat all wives with respect. This is no great credit to married women. Men are always ready to respect anything that bores them. (Chapter 22, "About Men" (starts on p. 124 in the 2006 reprint; exact page in the 1974 edition not visible in available preview)). The strongest primary-source lead is Marilyn Monroe's autobiography My Story, written with Ben Hecht. Multiple quote databases specifically attribute the longer passage to My Story, and Google Books confirms the book's structure, including Chapter 22, "About Men," beginning on page 124 in the 2006 reprint. I could verify the wording of the longer form from secondary quote references, but I could not directly view the scanned page of the book itself in the available Google Books preview. The commonly circulated version "Men are so willing to respect anything that bores them" appears to be a paraphrased variant; the attributed book form is "Men are always ready to respect anything that bores them." Because My Story was published posthumously in 1974, this is the earliest located publication, but not necessarily something publicly spoken by Monroe during her lifetime. Other candidates (1) Yahweh to Hell (Rich Woods, 2015) compilation95.0% ... Men are so willing to respect anything that bores them . -Marilyn Monroe 67 But the plan doesn't end there . The ... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Monroe, Marilyn. (2026, March 12). Men are so willing to respect anything that bores them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-are-so-willing-to-respect-anything-that-bores-137581/
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Monroe, Marilyn. "Men are so willing to respect anything that bores them." FixQuotes. March 12, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-are-so-willing-to-respect-anything-that-bores-137581/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Men are so willing to respect anything that bores them." FixQuotes, 12 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-are-so-willing-to-respect-anything-that-bores-137581/. Accessed 28 Mar. 2026.










