"Men don't even ask me out. I can't remember the last time I was asked out on a date, and I'm talking years here. I spend my life more and more alone"
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The specificity of “I can’t remember the last time” and the hard thud of “years” do more than emphasize duration. They signal shame and disbelief, as if she’s trying to convince herself the number is real. It’s also a subtle indictment of the ecosystem around fame: men who are intimidated, opportunistic, or convinced she isn’t “dateable” in a normal way. When a person becomes an image, ordinary intimacy starts to feel like trespassing.
“I spend my life more and more alone” widens the lens from dating to a trajectory. “More and more” implies a gradual drift, not a dramatic breakup - a life narrowing over time. Coming from a model whose career depended on being looked at, the subtext is brutal: visibility isn’t the same as being known. The intent reads like a plea for normalcy, but it’s also a critique of how celebrity flattens a person into rumor, spectacle, and cautionary tale, leaving actual companionship as collateral damage.
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| Topic | Loneliness |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Smith, Anna Nicole. (2026, January 17). Men don't even ask me out. I can't remember the last time I was asked out on a date, and I'm talking years here. I spend my life more and more alone. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-dont-even-ask-me-out-i-cant-remember-the-last-69678/
Chicago Style
Smith, Anna Nicole. "Men don't even ask me out. I can't remember the last time I was asked out on a date, and I'm talking years here. I spend my life more and more alone." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-dont-even-ask-me-out-i-cant-remember-the-last-69678/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Men don't even ask me out. I can't remember the last time I was asked out on a date, and I'm talking years here. I spend my life more and more alone." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-dont-even-ask-me-out-i-cant-remember-the-last-69678/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





