"'Men have forgotten this truth,' said the fox. 'But you must not forget it. You become responsible, forever, for what you have tamed.'"
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Saint-Exupery slips a moral grenade into a children’s parable and makes it go off gently. The fox’s line sounds like a bedtime lesson, but it’s really a rebuke: connection isn’t a vibe, it’s a contract. “Tamed” is the provocation. It’s not about domination so much as mutual shaping - the way attention, routines, and shared meaning turn two strangers into something like kin. The quote works because it refuses the modern fantasy of consequence-free intimacy. If you invite yourself into another being’s life and make yourself necessary, you don’t get to vanish without leaving damage.
The subtext is aimed at the adult world Saint-Exupery watched fracture in the first half of the 20th century, where loyalty was cheapened by speed, ideology, and war. “Men have forgotten this truth” is less “kids, be nice” than “grown-ups, stop acting surprised when your choices leave wreckage.” The fox speaks like an oracle because the book treats wisdom as something civilization misplaces and the so-called naive can still access.
“Forever” is the needle. It’s not legalistic; it’s psychological. The bond outlives proximity. Even if you walk away, you carry responsibility in memory, in the way you’ve altered someone’s expectations of love, safety, and return. Saint-Exupery, a pilot who lived with risk and disappearance, frames tenderness as ethically serious: to be cherished is to be endangered, and to cherish is to accept the duty that comes with being the cause.
The subtext is aimed at the adult world Saint-Exupery watched fracture in the first half of the 20th century, where loyalty was cheapened by speed, ideology, and war. “Men have forgotten this truth” is less “kids, be nice” than “grown-ups, stop acting surprised when your choices leave wreckage.” The fox speaks like an oracle because the book treats wisdom as something civilization misplaces and the so-called naive can still access.
“Forever” is the needle. It’s not legalistic; it’s psychological. The bond outlives proximity. Even if you walk away, you carry responsibility in memory, in the way you’ve altered someone’s expectations of love, safety, and return. Saint-Exupery, a pilot who lived with risk and disappearance, frames tenderness as ethically serious: to be cherished is to be endangered, and to cherish is to accept the duty that comes with being the cause.
Quote Details
| Topic | Friendship |
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| Source | The Little Prince (Le Petit Prince), 1943, chapter 21 — contains the fox's line: 'Men have forgotten this truth,' said the fox. 'But you must not forget it. You become responsible, forever, for what you have tamed.' — Antoine de Saint-Exupéry. |
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