"Men like women who write. Even though they don't say so. A writer is a foreign country"
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"A writer is a foreign country" turns authorship into geography - alluring, exotic, ungovernable. Foreignness here isn't just difference; it's sovereignty. The writer carries her own laws, her own language, her own borders. To enter is to risk being translated, misread, or changed. It's also a sly reversal of the usual gendered travel narrative: women are so often cast as territory to be explored. Duras makes the writer the traveler and the land at once, unreachable on anyone else's terms.
Coming from a mid-century French novelist who wrote relentlessly about desire, power, and the violence of being looked at, the line reads like a field report from the front. Men may "like" women who write, but liking is cheap. The real question is whether they can tolerate what writing makes visible: that the woman is not the muse. She's the country.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Duras, Marguerite. (2026, January 16). Men like women who write. Even though they don't say so. A writer is a foreign country. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-like-women-who-write-even-though-they-dont-96805/
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Duras, Marguerite. "Men like women who write. Even though they don't say so. A writer is a foreign country." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-like-women-who-write-even-though-they-dont-96805/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Men like women who write. Even though they don't say so. A writer is a foreign country." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-like-women-who-write-even-though-they-dont-96805/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.




