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Justice & Law Quote by Thucydides

"Men naturally despise those who court them, but respect those who do not give way to them"

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Power, Thucydides suggests, is allergic to eagerness. The line works because it strips “respect” of its moral glow and recasts it as a social reflex: people read deference as weakness, and resistance as proof of value. It’s a cold-blooded insight, less about individual romance with approval than about status economies, where scarcity and self-possession function like currency. To “court” someone is to declare need; to “not give way” is to project autonomy. One posture invites contempt, the other coerces regard.

The intent is diagnostic, not uplifting. Thucydides isn’t handing out self-help; he’s describing the psychology that makes coercion and brinkmanship effective in politics. In the Peloponnesian War narrative, cities and leaders constantly test one another for resolve. Concessions don’t buy peace so much as they invite new demands, because they teach the other side what costs you’re unwilling to pay. The quote’s subtext is a warning about misreading human nature: appeals to gratitude, generosity, or harmony can be structurally naive when the arena rewards dominance and punishes supplication.

Context matters: writing in a world where alliances were brittle, honor was public, and “face” could decide war, Thucydides is mapping the logic of deterrence before the term existed. His historian’s voice turns personal behavior into a political rule: the quickest way to lose leverage is to look like you want something too much. Respect, in this framing, is less admiration than reluctant recognition of limits.

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Thucydides. (2026, January 17). Men naturally despise those who court them, but respect those who do not give way to them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-naturally-despise-those-who-court-them-but-63673/

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Thucydides. "Men naturally despise those who court them, but respect those who do not give way to them." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-naturally-despise-those-who-court-them-but-63673/.

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"Men naturally despise those who court them, but respect those who do not give way to them." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-naturally-despise-those-who-court-them-but-63673/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.

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Thucydides (460 BC - 395 BC) was a Historian from Greece.

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