"Men should be bewailed at their birth, and not at their death"
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As an Enlightenment philosopher, Montesquieu is rarely just being dark. He’s weaponizing irony to expose how public rituals can mask private realities. We stage grief at death because it’s visible, communal, and socially legible. The sufferings that justify grief - poverty, injustice, humiliation, boredom, coercion - are dispersed across decades, normalized, and therefore politically convenient to ignore. Mourn the newborn, and you’re forced to acknowledge what you’re initiating them into.
There’s also a sly critique of how societies narrate themselves. States and churches celebrate births: new subjects, new workers, new believers. They sanctify beginnings because beginnings serve power. By proposing the opposite ceremony, Montesquieu punctures that optimism and asks an uncomfortable question: if life under our institutions were genuinely good, why would the thought of a long life feel like something you’d apologize for?
The line endures because it’s compact pessimism with a civic edge: despair deployed as social criticism, not as a pose.
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