"Men should be either treated generously or destroyed, because they take revenge for slight injuries - for heavy ones they cannot"
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The subtext is that half-measures are the real vice. A ruler who nicks an opponent’s pride without ending their power creates a permanent political problem: a living grievance with resources. “Slight” and “heavy” aren’t just about physical damage; they’re about status, property, family, and public honor - the currencies that matter in a world where institutions are weak and personal networks are everything. Machiavelli is writing in the wake of Italian city-state turbulence, where alliances flipped, exiles returned, and yesterday’s beneficiary became tomorrow’s conspirator. He treats revenge not as a moral failing but as a predictable engine of politics.
Why it works is its brutal clarity: it strips away comforting ideas about gradualism and humane restraint, replacing them with an unsettling rule of thumb. It’s also a warning against performative cruelty. If you’re going to be feared, do it decisively; if you’re going to be loved, invest lavishly. Anything in between invites the one thing a prince can’t afford: an enemy with motive and momentum.
Quote Details
| Topic | Decision-Making |
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| Source | Unverified source: The Prince (Niccolo Machiavelli, 1532)
Evidence: Upon this, one has to remark that men ought either to be well treated or crushed, because they can avenge themselves of lighter injuries, of more serious ones they cannot; therefore the injury that is to be done to a man ought to be of such a kind that one does not stand in fear of revenge. (Chap... Other candidates (1) The Enemies to Lovers Manual (Natalie Wrye, 2022) compilation95.5% ... Men should be either treated generously or destroyed , because they take revenge for slight injuries - for heavy ... |
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