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Daily Inspiration Quote by Peter Ustinov

"Men think about women. Women think about what men think about them"

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A line like this lands because it’s built like a joke and delivered like a diagnosis. Ustinov, the consummate actor and raconteur, compresses a whole social script into two brisk sentences: men are granted the luxury of desire as a straightforward appetite, while women are pushed into the second-order labor of self-surveillance. The wit isn’t just in the reversal; it’s in how casually it exposes a rigged baseline. One group gets to look. The other is trained to imagine being looked at.

The subtext is less “women are vain” than “women are managed.” If you grow up in a culture where your value is routinely appraised, you start performing preemptive PR on your own body and personality. Ustinov frames that as “thinking,” but what he’s really describing is a constant audit: How am I coming across? What did that glance mean? What will this choice cost me in reputation, safety, opportunity? That’s not narcissism; it’s strategy under conditions of scrutiny.

The intent is teasing, but the tease has teeth. As a pop-cultural figure, Ustinov isn’t writing feminist theory; he’s staging a recognizable dynamic for an audience that already suspects it’s true. The line’s simplicity is the bait. Its sting is that it makes male attention sound almost childlike, and female attention sound like a full-time job.

Context matters: mid-20th-century celebrity culture, postwar gender norms, the rise of mass media’s beauty economy. In that world, “what men think” isn’t a private opinion; it’s a currency women are told to budget around.

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TopicWitty One-Liners
SourceQuote commonly attributed to Peter Ustinov; widely cited in quote collections and on Wikiquote. Precise original publication or page not identified here.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ustinov, Peter. (2026, January 18). Men think about women. Women think about what men think about them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-think-about-women-women-think-about-what-men-10539/

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Ustinov, Peter. "Men think about women. Women think about what men think about them." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-think-about-women-women-think-about-what-men-10539/.

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"Men think about women. Women think about what men think about them." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-think-about-women-women-think-about-what-men-10539/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Peter Ustinov

Peter Ustinov (April 16, 1921 - March 28, 2004) was a Actor from United Kingdom.

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