"Men think about women. Women think about what men think about them"
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The subtext is less “women are vain” than “women are managed.” If you grow up in a culture where your value is routinely appraised, you start performing preemptive PR on your own body and personality. Ustinov frames that as “thinking,” but what he’s really describing is a constant audit: How am I coming across? What did that glance mean? What will this choice cost me in reputation, safety, opportunity? That’s not narcissism; it’s strategy under conditions of scrutiny.
The intent is teasing, but the tease has teeth. As a pop-cultural figure, Ustinov isn’t writing feminist theory; he’s staging a recognizable dynamic for an audience that already suspects it’s true. The line’s simplicity is the bait. Its sting is that it makes male attention sound almost childlike, and female attention sound like a full-time job.
Context matters: mid-20th-century celebrity culture, postwar gender norms, the rise of mass media’s beauty economy. In that world, “what men think” isn’t a private opinion; it’s a currency women are told to budget around.
Quote Details
| Topic | Witty One-Liners |
|---|---|
| Source | Quote commonly attributed to Peter Ustinov; widely cited in quote collections and on Wikiquote. Precise original publication or page not identified here. |
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Ustinov, Peter. (2026, January 18). Men think about women. Women think about what men think about them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-think-about-women-women-think-about-what-men-10539/
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Ustinov, Peter. "Men think about women. Women think about what men think about them." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-think-about-women-women-think-about-what-men-10539/.
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"Men think about women. Women think about what men think about them." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-think-about-women-women-think-about-what-men-10539/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










