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Human Rights Quote by Frank Pittman

"Men who have been raised violently have every reason to believe it is appropriate for them to control others through violence; they feel no compunction over being violent to women, children, and one another"

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Pittman’s line refuses the comforting fiction that violence is a “temper” problem. It frames violence as education: a learned civic code taught in homes where power arrives through fear, not consent. The phrasing “every reason to believe” is doing the real work here. It’s not excusing harm; it’s describing the internal logic of someone shaped by it. If your earliest lessons are that the biggest person wins and that love can coexist with pain, violence doesn’t feel like a moral breach. It feels like enforcement.

The bluntness of “no compunction” pushes the reader away from the usual sentimental categories (good man/bad man) and toward a colder diagnosis: compunction requires a socialized boundary, and violent upbringing erodes the boundary itself. “Appropriate” is the most damning word in the sentence. It suggests violence isn’t just a lapse; it’s perceived as correct procedure, the default tool for restoring order when authority feels threatened.

The inclusion of “women, children, and one another” maps the hierarchy of vulnerability, but also widens the frame beyond domestic violence into a general economy of dominance. This is a quote that lives comfortably in late-20th-century therapeutic discourse: it echoes a moment when family systems theory and trauma-informed thinking began challenging “monster” narratives and asking what, precisely, society trains men to do with anger, entitlement, and shame.

The subtext is a policy argument in disguise: if violence is learned, prevention can’t stop at punishment. It has to interrupt the curriculum.

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Pittman, Frank. (2026, January 16). Men who have been raised violently have every reason to believe it is appropriate for them to control others through violence; they feel no compunction over being violent to women, children, and one another. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-who-have-been-raised-violently-have-every-104764/

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Pittman, Frank. "Men who have been raised violently have every reason to believe it is appropriate for them to control others through violence; they feel no compunction over being violent to women, children, and one another." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-who-have-been-raised-violently-have-every-104764/.

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"Men who have been raised violently have every reason to believe it is appropriate for them to control others through violence; they feel no compunction over being violent to women, children, and one another." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-who-have-been-raised-violently-have-every-104764/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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