"Men who have reached and passed forty-five, have a look as if waiting for the secret of the other world, and as if they were perfectly sure of having found out the secret of this"
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The intent feels double-edged. On its surface, it’s an observational jab at the self-satisfied look of men who’ve accumulated authority, habits, and a story about how things work. Underneath, it reads like a critique of power that calcifies. By forty-five, in politics especially, the reward structure encourages a performance of certainty: don’t hesitate, don’t revise, don’t admit contingency. Meir is pointing at the facial expression that comes from that training, the mask of having “figured it out,” even as history keeps changing the questions.
Context matters because Meir led in a century that punished female leaders for any perceived softness while routinely mistaking male bluntness for clarity. Her line quietly indicts a gendered economy of credibility: men are allowed to look like they possess the manual. Women, even when they run countries, are expected to keep proving they’ve read it.
It works because it compresses metaphysics into politics: the afterlife becomes a punchline, and certainty becomes a tell. The “secret” isn’t enlightenment; it’s the convenience of thinking you’re done learning.
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Meir, Golda. (2026, January 16). Men who have reached and passed forty-five, have a look as if waiting for the secret of the other world, and as if they were perfectly sure of having found out the secret of this. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-who-have-reached-and-passed-forty-five-have-a-90190/
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Meir, Golda. "Men who have reached and passed forty-five, have a look as if waiting for the secret of the other world, and as if they were perfectly sure of having found out the secret of this." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-who-have-reached-and-passed-forty-five-have-a-90190/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Men who have reached and passed forty-five, have a look as if waiting for the secret of the other world, and as if they were perfectly sure of having found out the secret of this." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/men-who-have-reached-and-passed-forty-five-have-a-90190/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







