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Love & Passion Quote by Samuel Pepys

"Mighty proud I am that I am able to have a spare bed for my friends"

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Pepys is flexing, but in a way that still passes as decency. The line sounds modest, almost homely - a spare bed, a simple domestic fact - yet it’s a quiet status update from a man who kept close accounts of money, reputation, and pleasure. In Restoration London, space is power. To have an extra bed is to have surplus: not just cash, but square footage, servants to manage the household, linen to spare, and a life stable enough to host other people’s needs.

The phrasing matters. “Mighty proud” is blunt; he doesn’t dress it up as piety. Pepys is telling on himself the way his diary often does: he wants credit for generosity, and he wants to enjoy wanting it. Friendship here isn’t purely sentimental; it’s social infrastructure. A spare bed means you can shelter allies, entertain visitors, lubricate networks. Hospitality becomes a form of influence, a way of keeping people close, literally under your roof.

There’s also a whiff of relief in the pride. Pepys rose from relatively modest origins into government work and the new professional class. The spare bed signals arrival, proof that he’s not one bad week away from discomfort. After a century of upheaval - civil war, plague, fire - the domestic detail lands as a small, hard-won victory: not heroism, but security. It’s a self-portrait in furniture: ambition translated into bedding, morality measured in mattress space.

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Samuel Pepys (February 23, 1633 - May 26, 1703) was a Writer from England.

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