"Misery is a match that never goes out"
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That’s a distinctly Victorian, scientifically minded pessimism. Huxley, “Darwin’s bulldog,” spent a career insisting that nature isn’t a moral tutor. Evolution doesn’t reward virtue; it selects for survival. Against that backdrop, misery becomes less a personal failing than a structural feature of life in a competitive world. The subtext is blunt: expecting existence to trend toward comfort is a category error, like expecting gravity to take a day off.
The phrasing also contains a quiet accusation. A match only keeps going if something continues to feed it - habit, memory, social conditions, the stories we rehearse. Huxley implies that misery’s endurance isn’t mystical; it’s mechanical. That’s why the metaphor lands with modern force: it anticipates how we now talk about anxiety loops, rumination, and systems that monetize discontent. The sting is in the scale. A match is not a bonfire, yet it can light one. Huxley compresses a whole worldview into a thumb-sized flame: suffering may start small, but it’s always ready.
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| Topic | Sadness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Huxley, Thomas. (2026, January 18). Misery is a match that never goes out. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/misery-is-a-match-that-never-goes-out-18012/
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Huxley, Thomas. "Misery is a match that never goes out." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/misery-is-a-match-that-never-goes-out-18012/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Misery is a match that never goes out." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/misery-is-a-match-that-never-goes-out-18012/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










