"Mishaps are like knives, that either serve us or cut us, as we grasp them by the blade or the handle"
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The subtext has a 19th-century moral spine, but it’s not pious. Lowell doesn’t deny pain; he relocates agency. “As we grasp them” shifts the center of gravity away from fate and toward choice, suggesting that the secondary injury - bitterness, paralysis, self-mythologizing - is often self-inflicted. At the same time, the metaphor admits limits: mishaps are still knives. You can be careful and still get cut. The line’s quiet toughness is that it avoids the cheap promise that everything happens for a reason; it argues instead that meaning is something you manufacture under pressure.
Context matters. Lowell lived through national fracture, public controversy, and the churn of reform-era idealism. As a poet and critic in a culture that prized character-building narratives, he offers a version of resilience that’s less about smiling through hardship and more about technique: learn where the edge is, respect it, and use what you can. The sentence itself is a handle - smooth, memorable, meant to be held in moments when you’re tempted to grab the blade.
Quote Details
| Topic | Learning from Mistakes |
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| Source | Verified source: Selections from the Writings of James Russell Lowell (James Russell Lowell, 1890)ID: 2Gw-AAAAYAAJ
Evidence: ... James Russell Lowell. 22. George Washington , 1732 ; J. R. Lowell , 1819 . Virginia gave us this imperial man ... Mishaps are like knives , that either serve us or cut us , as we grasp them by the blade or the handle . CAMBRIDGE ... Other candidates (1) Fireside Travels (James Russell Lowell, 1854)100.0% Mishaps are like knives, that either serve us or cut us, as we grasp them by the blade or the handle. (Chapter/essay:... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lowell, James Russell. (2026, February 26). Mishaps are like knives, that either serve us or cut us, as we grasp them by the blade or the handle. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/mishaps-are-like-knives-that-either-serve-us-or-35269/
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Lowell, James Russell. "Mishaps are like knives, that either serve us or cut us, as we grasp them by the blade or the handle." FixQuotes. February 26, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/mishaps-are-like-knives-that-either-serve-us-or-35269/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Mishaps are like knives, that either serve us or cut us, as we grasp them by the blade or the handle." FixQuotes, 26 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/mishaps-are-like-knives-that-either-serve-us-or-35269/. Accessed 21 Mar. 2026.





