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Daily Inspiration Quote by Henry A. Kissinger

"Moderation is a virtue only in those who are thought to have an alternative"

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Moderation sounds like moral hygiene until Kissinger reminds you it can also be a luxury good. The line is a small, cold piece of realist doctrine: restraint only earns praise when people believe you could credibly choose something harsher. If you are weak, cornered, or structurally constrained, “moderation” isn’t virtue; it’s inevitability dressed up as character.

The intent is tactical. Kissinger is speaking to audiences that mistake tone for leverage. In diplomacy, being “reasonable” is not an identity, it’s a signal, and signals only matter when the other side fears the alternative. The subtext is blunt: virtue is often just power with good manners. A state that cannot escalate cannot “choose peace” in any meaningful sense; it merely endures it. So the compliment “moderate” becomes less a moral award than a recognition that you had options and withheld them.

Context matters because Kissinger’s career was built inside the machinery of coercive bargaining: Cold War brinkmanship, triangular diplomacy, and negotiations where the shadow of force was never absent, even when it went unspoken. He understood that reputations are currency in international politics, and moderation can function as brand management for a credible threat.

That’s why the aphorism still bites. It punctures today’s soft-focus celebration of “centrist” posture by asking an uncomfortable question: are you being temperate, or merely unable to be otherwise?

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Kissinger, Henry A. (n.d.). Moderation is a virtue only in those who are thought to have an alternative. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/moderation-is-a-virtue-only-in-those-who-are-19843/

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Henry A. Kissinger

Henry A. Kissinger (May 27, 1923 - November 29, 2023) was a Statesman from Germany.

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