"Mom ran the house, so we grew up Portuguese"
About this Quote
The intent is affectionate and matter-of-fact, but the subtext is pointed. Lagasse isn't praising some abstract idea of tradition. He's crediting a specific person - his mother - as the engine of continuity. The joke lands because it flips a familiar American narrative: we often talk about assimilation as inevitable, as if immigrant culture dissolves on contact with the mainstream. Here, assimilation is optional, even negotiable, and Mom is the negotiator. Patriarchy doesn't get a cameo; the household isn't framed as a partnership of equal influence, but as a clear chain of command.
Context matters: Lagasse's public persona is food as identity, food as performance, food as memory you can plate and sell without losing its soul. By tying Portuguese-ness to who "ran the house", he sketches how cuisine becomes a cultural constitution. The line also smuggles in a broader truth about celebrity origin stories: the superstar chef isn't born in a studio kitchen, but in a home where someone's standards were non-negotiable, and the kid learned that belonging tastes like something.
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| Topic | Mother |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lagasse, Emeril. (2026, January 15). Mom ran the house, so we grew up Portuguese. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/mom-ran-the-house-so-we-grew-up-portuguese-148897/
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Lagasse, Emeril. "Mom ran the house, so we grew up Portuguese." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/mom-ran-the-house-so-we-grew-up-portuguese-148897/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Mom ran the house, so we grew up Portuguese." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/mom-ran-the-house-so-we-grew-up-portuguese-148897/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

