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Daily Inspiration Quote by Marya Mannes

"Money is not an aphrodisiac: the desire it may kindle in the female eye is more for the cash than the carrier"

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Mannes takes a torch to one of capitalism’s favorite fantasies: that money is sexy in itself. Her line doesn’t just puncture the cliché of “wealth = allure,” it reframes the transaction. If money “kindles” desire, she suggests, it’s not desire for the person but for what the person represents as a delivery system. The sting is in the last word: “carrier” reduces the would-be suitor to a container, a walking transfer.

The intent is double-edged. On the surface, it’s a warning to men who confuse purchasing power with personal magnetism. Underneath, it’s also a cool appraisal of how a market society trains people to read each other as opportunities. Mannes locates the erotic not in intimacy but in the gaze: “the female eye.” That phrase is doing work. It mimics the language of male spectatorship while flipping the power dynamic, casting women as the evaluators and men as the object being priced. It’s witty, a little ruthless, and calibrated to scandalize anyone invested in romantic exceptionalism.

Context matters: Mannes wrote in an era when women’s economic options were constricted and marriage was often a financial strategy as much as a personal bond. The line can sound sexist if read as a blanket claim about women, but its sharper target is the system that makes cash a proxy for security and makes people mistake that proxy for desire. The cynicism lands because it’s plausible - and because it refuses to flatter anyone.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Mannes, Marya. (2026, January 15). Money is not an aphrodisiac: the desire it may kindle in the female eye is more for the cash than the carrier. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/money-is-not-an-aphrodisiac-the-desire-it-may-127801/

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Mannes, Marya. "Money is not an aphrodisiac: the desire it may kindle in the female eye is more for the cash than the carrier." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/money-is-not-an-aphrodisiac-the-desire-it-may-127801/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Money is not an aphrodisiac: the desire it may kindle in the female eye is more for the cash than the carrier." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/money-is-not-an-aphrodisiac-the-desire-it-may-127801/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

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Marya Mannes (November 14, 1904 - September 13, 1990) was a Journalist from USA.

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