"Money, it turned out, was exactly like sex, you thought of nothing else if you didn't have it, and thought of other things if you did"
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The subtext is a critique of the moralizing gaze aimed at the poor. Baldwin suggests that what looks like greed or single-mindedness is often just the cognitive tax of scarcity. He also needles the comfortable for mistaking their freedom from obsession as spiritual superiority. They’re not less materialistic; they’re simply less haunted.
Context matters because Baldwin is never only talking about cash. In mid-century America, money is inseparable from race, power, and access: who gets to feel secure, who gets to be experimental, who gets to fail safely. The sex comparison adds another layer: desire shaped by absence, the way shame and longing can warp intimacy. Baldwin’s wit is doing ethical work. He collapses the distance between bodily need and economic need so the reader can’t hide behind abstraction. The line insists: if you want to understand people, start with what they’re denied, and notice how quickly your own nobler thoughts arrive once the bills are paid.
Quote Details
| Topic | Money |
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| Source | Another Country — James Baldwin (1962). Line appears in Baldwin's novel Another Country (commonly cited; exact page varies by edition). |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Baldwin, James A. (2026, February 20). Money, it turned out, was exactly like sex, you thought of nothing else if you didn't have it, and thought of other things if you did. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/money-it-turned-out-was-exactly-like-sex-you-23746/
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Baldwin, James A. "Money, it turned out, was exactly like sex, you thought of nothing else if you didn't have it, and thought of other things if you did." FixQuotes. February 20, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/money-it-turned-out-was-exactly-like-sex-you-23746/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Money, it turned out, was exactly like sex, you thought of nothing else if you didn't have it, and thought of other things if you did." FixQuotes, 20 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/money-it-turned-out-was-exactly-like-sex-you-23746/. Accessed 28 Feb. 2026.







