"Morality is simply the attitude we adopt towards people whom we personally dislike"
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The subtext is less “ethics are fake” than “ethics are often convenient.” Wilde spotlights how quickly principles become permissions: dislike someone and suddenly you discover a new devotion to propriety, decency, standards. It’s a line aimed at Victorian respectability culture, where moral judgment doubled as class management and sexual policing. Wilde, eventually prosecuted for “gross indecency,” understood the machinery firsthand: society didn’t just disapprove; it moralized, turning prejudice into righteousness.
The phrasing “attitude we adopt” matters. Morality becomes performative - a posture, a costume - suggesting that judgment is less about what someone did than about who gets framed as deserving contempt. Wilde’s wit is doing serious work: it collapses the distance between the sermon and the sneer. The uncomfortable implication is that our strictest moral certainty may be a diagnostic tool, revealing not our values but our animus.
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Wilde, Oscar. (2026, January 14). Morality is simply the attitude we adopt towards people whom we personally dislike. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/morality-is-simply-the-attitude-we-adopt-towards-26937/
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Wilde, Oscar. "Morality is simply the attitude we adopt towards people whom we personally dislike." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/morality-is-simply-the-attitude-we-adopt-towards-26937/.
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"Morality is simply the attitude we adopt towards people whom we personally dislike." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/morality-is-simply-the-attitude-we-adopt-towards-26937/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.











