"Morality, like language, is an invented structure for conserving and communicating order. And morality is learned, like language, by mimicking and remembering"
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The second move is sharper: morality is learned by “mimicking and remembering.” That’s a child’s toolkit, and Rule leans into it to demystify virtue. We don’t reason our way into good conduct first; we copy what we see, absorb rewards and punishments, store scripts about what is “proper,” “disgusting,” “normal.” The subtext is both skeptical and compassionate. Skeptical, because if morality is mostly imitation, then moral certainty is often just well-rehearsed conformity. Compassionate, because it implies people are shaped before they choose; blame becomes less satisfying than inquiry.
Context matters: Rule, a Canadian novelist and essayist, wrote amid late-20th-century fights over sexuality, censorship, and “public decency.” In that climate, moral language was frequently used to police queer lives while posing as eternal principle. Her comparison to language hints at the escape hatch: invented structures can be revised. If morality is learned, it can be relearned; if it communicates order, it can be made to communicate a different one.
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Rule, Jane. (2026, January 15). Morality, like language, is an invented structure for conserving and communicating order. And morality is learned, like language, by mimicking and remembering. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/morality-like-language-is-an-invented-structure-158576/
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Rule, Jane. "Morality, like language, is an invented structure for conserving and communicating order. And morality is learned, like language, by mimicking and remembering." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/morality-like-language-is-an-invented-structure-158576/.
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"Morality, like language, is an invented structure for conserving and communicating order. And morality is learned, like language, by mimicking and remembering." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/morality-like-language-is-an-invented-structure-158576/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.








