"Morality which depends upon the helplessness of a man or woman has not much to recommend it. Morality is rooted in the purity of our hearts"
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The subtext is sharper than the phrasing suggests. Gandhi isn’t merely asking for kinder behavior, he’s stripping away the most convenient alibi of patriarchal and imperial order: that restraint equals righteousness. A man who “spares” a woman because she is socially constrained, economically dependent, or physically overmatched is not proving moral strength; he’s benefiting from an unfair match. This is morality as reputational management, not ethical conviction.
By pivoting to “purity of our hearts,” Gandhi moves the battlefield inward, consistent with his broader politics of self-discipline (brahmacharya, nonviolence, renunciation) as public strategy. He’s arguing that real ethics must hold even when power is available and consequences are absent. That internal standard matters in a colonial context where British rule justified itself as civilizing and orderly while relying on coercion, and in an Indian context where “respectability” often meant controlling women’s agency.
Rhetorically, the quote refuses legalism and loopholes. It asks a devastating question: would you still choose restraint if the other person were fully free and fully able to say no? If not, your morality is just opportunism with manners.
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"Morality which depends upon the helplessness of a man or woman has not much to recommend it. Morality is rooted in the purity of our hearts." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/morality-which-depends-upon-the-helplessness-of-a-26091/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











