"More of him came from my step-dad, who is now passed away. The initial creators of the show kind of based the character on their dads and then I added my dad"
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Smith’s phrasing does a lot of emotional work. “More of him came from my step-dad” lands like a private correction to the cultural script that treats step-parents as secondary. He’s not offering a sentimental tribute; he’s stating a creative fact. The character’s DNA shifted because the relationship mattered. The aside “now passed away” isn’t melodrama, it’s the quiet pressure behind the whole anecdote: performance as a way of carrying someone forward, of letting a dead person keep speaking through timing, posture, impatience, tenderness.
The context matters, too: a show built on intergenerational friction, where “dad” functions as both authority and target. By admitting the character was “kind of based” on real dads, Smith punctures the myth of pure authorial control. Characters like this don’t arrive fully formed; they’re negotiated between writers’ rooms and lived experience. He “added my dad” the way you add a note to a chord: not changing the song’s key, but deepening the resonance. The subtext is collaboration across time - even across loss.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Smith, Kurtwood. (n.d.). More of him came from my step-dad, who is now passed away. The initial creators of the show kind of based the character on their dads and then I added my dad. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/more-of-him-came-from-my-step-dad-who-is-now-56141/
Chicago Style
Smith, Kurtwood. "More of him came from my step-dad, who is now passed away. The initial creators of the show kind of based the character on their dads and then I added my dad." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/more-of-him-came-from-my-step-dad-who-is-now-56141/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"More of him came from my step-dad, who is now passed away. The initial creators of the show kind of based the character on their dads and then I added my dad." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/more-of-him-came-from-my-step-dad-who-is-now-56141/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.






