"Most drama in our lives is really rather squalid"
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Coming from an actor - and specifically Baker, whose career is steeped in theatricality and larger-than-life presence - the remark doubles as a quiet demystification of performance itself. He’s suggesting that offstage emotional turbulence rarely earns its own grand framing. People want their mess to read as epic; it often reads as small. The intent isn’t simply to sneer at human behavior, but to puncture our self-mythology: we inflate squabbles into plot because plot is easier to live with than randomness, boredom, and shame.
There’s also a cultural jab here at the modern habit of turning private life into content. “Squalid” implies not just triviality but a kind of moral cheapness: drama as currency, as attention strategy, as a way to avoid doing the harder, quieter work of change. Baker’s dryness makes the line feel like advice disguised as cynicism: downgrade the spectacle, notice the grime, and you might finally stop mistaking noise for significance.
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Baker, Tom. (2026, January 16). Most drama in our lives is really rather squalid. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/most-drama-in-our-lives-is-really-rather-squalid-105433/
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Baker, Tom. "Most drama in our lives is really rather squalid." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/most-drama-in-our-lives-is-really-rather-squalid-105433/.
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"Most drama in our lives is really rather squalid." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/most-drama-in-our-lives-is-really-rather-squalid-105433/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.


