"Most men are not that evolved"
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Rosanna Arquette, a veteran actor and early voice in the MeToo movement, distills decades of navigating Hollywood power when she says, "Most men are not that evolved". The point is not biology but moral and social development. Evolution here is a metaphor for empathy, accountability, and the capacity to see women as full equals rather than functions within a male-centered system. From casting rooms to boardrooms, she has watched how entitlement, impunity, and a reflex to protect privilege still shape behavior.
The remark is blunt, but it is diagnostic rather than gratuitous. It names a gap between the values many societies publicly claim and the habits men are often taught: equating dominance with strength, dismissing vulnerability, interpreting criticism as attack, and treating boundaries as negotiable. When men occupy the majority of gatekeeping roles, that gap becomes systemic. Arquette helped expose how a culture of silence around abuse and coercion relied on that very unevolved reflex: prioritize power, not personhood.
The phrasing matters. "Most" acknowledges exceptions and signals a pattern, not a universal. It also invites men to see themselves within a spectrum of growth. Some have stepped forward as allies, reforming workplaces, listening without defensiveness, and sharing risk. Yet backlash and performative apologies reveal how fragile progress can be when unaccompanied by deeper change.
The line also recognizes that institutions reward unevolved traits. Aggression, competitiveness without care, and loyalty to the club often pay off. So personal transformation must pair with structural shifts: transparent accountability, equitable pay and credit, consent-centered norms, and a revaluation of care work and collaboration.
Arquette is asking for acceleration. Cultural evolution is slow and uneven, but the tools for a different masculinity exist. To be more evolved is to widen empathy, decouple identity from dominance, and let listening alter behavior. The future will be shaped by whether men treat that work as optional or as the baseline of adulthood.
The remark is blunt, but it is diagnostic rather than gratuitous. It names a gap between the values many societies publicly claim and the habits men are often taught: equating dominance with strength, dismissing vulnerability, interpreting criticism as attack, and treating boundaries as negotiable. When men occupy the majority of gatekeeping roles, that gap becomes systemic. Arquette helped expose how a culture of silence around abuse and coercion relied on that very unevolved reflex: prioritize power, not personhood.
The phrasing matters. "Most" acknowledges exceptions and signals a pattern, not a universal. It also invites men to see themselves within a spectrum of growth. Some have stepped forward as allies, reforming workplaces, listening without defensiveness, and sharing risk. Yet backlash and performative apologies reveal how fragile progress can be when unaccompanied by deeper change.
The line also recognizes that institutions reward unevolved traits. Aggression, competitiveness without care, and loyalty to the club often pay off. So personal transformation must pair with structural shifts: transparent accountability, equitable pay and credit, consent-centered norms, and a revaluation of care work and collaboration.
Arquette is asking for acceleration. Cultural evolution is slow and uneven, but the tools for a different masculinity exist. To be more evolved is to widen empathy, decouple identity from dominance, and let listening alter behavior. The future will be shaped by whether men treat that work as optional or as the baseline of adulthood.
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