"Most of the things we decide are not what we know to be the best. We say yes, merely because we are driven into a corner and must say something"
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The key move is the word “yes.” Crane doesn’t center the spectacular sins; he targets the small, daily capitulations that accumulate into a life. “Yes” reads as compliance with employers, family expectations, community norms, even one’s own fear of conflict. It’s also a religiously inflected critique of conscience: knowing the good is not the same as doing it, and the gap is filled by cowardice disguised as practicality.
“Driven into a corner” implies a world that doesn’t wait for clarity. The corner is time pressure, limited options, and the demand to perform decisiveness. “Must say something” exposes the subtext of public life: silence looks like weakness, uncertainty like irresponsibility. So people pick a side, sign the form, accept the arrangement, not because it’s right but because refusing would require a harder kind of courage.
Contextually, Crane wrote in an era of brisk modernization and managerial culture, when choices multiplied but autonomy often shrank. The quote lands because it indicts the modern ritual of forced certainty: we call it “decision,” but it’s frequently a surrender with a verbal receipt.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Crane, Frank. (2026, January 15). Most of the things we decide are not what we know to be the best. We say yes, merely because we are driven into a corner and must say something. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/most-of-the-things-we-decide-are-not-what-we-know-66712/
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Crane, Frank. "Most of the things we decide are not what we know to be the best. We say yes, merely because we are driven into a corner and must say something." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/most-of-the-things-we-decide-are-not-what-we-know-66712/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Most of the things we decide are not what we know to be the best. We say yes, merely because we are driven into a corner and must say something." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/most-of-the-things-we-decide-are-not-what-we-know-66712/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.








