"Most of us actually stifle enough good impulses during the course of a day to change the current of our lives"
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The subtext is that character is less a fixed trait than a pattern of micro-permissions. Marston, a psychologist fascinated by motivation and inner drives (and, historically, by the dynamics of power and constraint), frames the self as something shaped by pressure: social expectation, institutional routines, the internalized voice that says “don’t make it awkward.” His genius is to make the stakes feel both ordinary and enormous. A “day” is nothing; a day repeated is destiny. The “current” metaphor rejects the fantasy of total reinvention and replaces it with a more plausible physics: tiny choices accumulate into directional force.
It’s also an implicit critique of politeness culture and productivity culture alike. We don’t just suppress our worst impulses to function; we suppress our best ones to fit. Marston’s provocation is simple: stop calling that survival.
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