"Most of us don't need a psychiatric therapist as much as a friend to be silly with"
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Brault’s line lands like a gentle jab at our era’s reflex to medicalize ordinary loneliness. The syntax does something sly: it doesn’t dismiss therapy, it demotes it from default solution to occasional necessity. “Most of us” is a soft qualifier that preempts outrage, while still arguing that the baseline problem isn’t pathology; it’s isolation. The phrase “psychiatric therapist” is deliberately formal, almost clinical, and that stiffness sets up the release valve of “a friend to be silly with.” The contrast is the point: treatment versus play, diagnosis versus communion.
The subtext is that emotional health is less about deep excavation than about permission. “Silly” isn’t trivial here; it’s a social technology. Being silly with someone means you can be unguarded without consequences, unserious without being judged, and present without performing competence. It’s intimacy disguised as goofing off. In that sense, Brault is talking about regulation of the nervous system the old-fashioned way: laughter, reciprocity, shared nonsense.
Context matters, too. In a culture that’s both therapy-literate and chronically atomized, the quote works as a corrective to the self-improvement industry’s solemnity. It also nudges against the idea that every emotional dip needs professional interpretation. Brault’s intent isn’t anti-therapy; it’s pro-friendship as first-line care, a reminder that many of our “symptoms” are social deficits. The barb is affectionate: we’re not always broken; we’re often just alone.
The subtext is that emotional health is less about deep excavation than about permission. “Silly” isn’t trivial here; it’s a social technology. Being silly with someone means you can be unguarded without consequences, unserious without being judged, and present without performing competence. It’s intimacy disguised as goofing off. In that sense, Brault is talking about regulation of the nervous system the old-fashioned way: laughter, reciprocity, shared nonsense.
Context matters, too. In a culture that’s both therapy-literate and chronically atomized, the quote works as a corrective to the self-improvement industry’s solemnity. It also nudges against the idea that every emotional dip needs professional interpretation. Brault’s intent isn’t anti-therapy; it’s pro-friendship as first-line care, a reminder that many of our “symptoms” are social deficits. The barb is affectionate: we’re not always broken; we’re often just alone.
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| Topic | Funny Friendship |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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