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Daily Inspiration Quote by Barbara Walters

"Most of us have trouble juggling. The woman who says she doesn't is someone whom I admire but have never met"

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Walters lands this with the soft clink of a martini glass: self-deprecation as a weapon, admiration as a wink. “Juggling” is the polite, late-20th-century euphemism for the whole trapdoor of modern competence - career, family, appearance, social life, self-care, all performed as if ease were the baseline. She opens by putting herself in the “most of us” bucket, a move that reads less like confession than credibility. Walters built a career on being unflappable on camera; here she signals that composure is not the same thing as serenity.

The second sentence is the kicker because it refuses to reward the myth. “The woman who says she doesn’t” is framed as an object of admiration, then immediately punctured: “but have never met.” Walters isn’t merely doubting a particular person; she’s implying the category is imaginary, a cultural unicorn invented to shame everyone else. The line does two things at once: it acknowledges how seductive the ideal is (she still calls it admirable), and it calls out the performance embedded in claiming you’re fine.

Context matters. Walters came up in an era when women entering top-tier journalism were expected to be exceptional and unmessy, while still being legible as “women.” The joke reads like a pressure valve for that double standard. It’s also a subtle rebuke to the virtue-signaling of effortless balance: if you’re not struggling, maybe you’re not telling the truth - or you’ve got help you’re not naming.

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Walters, Barbara. (2026, January 15). Most of us have trouble juggling. The woman who says she doesn't is someone whom I admire but have never met. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/most-of-us-have-trouble-juggling-the-woman-who-64040/

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Walters, Barbara. "Most of us have trouble juggling. The woman who says she doesn't is someone whom I admire but have never met." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/most-of-us-have-trouble-juggling-the-woman-who-64040/.

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"Most of us have trouble juggling. The woman who says she doesn't is someone whom I admire but have never met." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/most-of-us-have-trouble-juggling-the-woman-who-64040/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.

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Barbara Walters (September 25, 1931 - December 30, 2022) was a Journalist from USA.

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