"Most of us have trouble juggling. The woman who says she doesn't is someone whom I admire but have never met"
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The second sentence is the kicker because it refuses to reward the myth. “The woman who says she doesn’t” is framed as an object of admiration, then immediately punctured: “but have never met.” Walters isn’t merely doubting a particular person; she’s implying the category is imaginary, a cultural unicorn invented to shame everyone else. The line does two things at once: it acknowledges how seductive the ideal is (she still calls it admirable), and it calls out the performance embedded in claiming you’re fine.
Context matters. Walters came up in an era when women entering top-tier journalism were expected to be exceptional and unmessy, while still being legible as “women.” The joke reads like a pressure valve for that double standard. It’s also a subtle rebuke to the virtue-signaling of effortless balance: if you’re not struggling, maybe you’re not telling the truth - or you’ve got help you’re not naming.
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Walters, Barbara. (2026, January 15). Most of us have trouble juggling. The woman who says she doesn't is someone whom I admire but have never met. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/most-of-us-have-trouble-juggling-the-woman-who-64040/
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Walters, Barbara. "Most of us have trouble juggling. The woman who says she doesn't is someone whom I admire but have never met." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/most-of-us-have-trouble-juggling-the-woman-who-64040/.
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"Most of us have trouble juggling. The woman who says she doesn't is someone whom I admire but have never met." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/most-of-us-have-trouble-juggling-the-woman-who-64040/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.








