"Most performers don't admit this, because it sounds negative and performers are not supposed to be negative, but when I was on the road, I was lonely"
About this Quote
The sentence is built like a confession that has been rehearsed. He starts with "Most performers don't admit this" to widen the problem beyond himself, then narrows to the plainest, least romantic word possible: "lonely". No glamorous misery, no tortured-artist theatrics. Just a blunt human condition that clashes with the mythology of the road as freedom. That contrast is the engine of the quote: movement without rootedness, applause without intimacy, constant company without companionship.
Context matters. Glazer came up in an era when touring meant long stretches of cheap motels, segregated venues, and a work schedule that rewarded reliability over vulnerability. For a folk musician - someone whose brand is closeness, community, sing-along belonging - loneliness is especially sharp. The subtext is that performance can be a kind of mask that sticks: you learn to project connection so well that you’re punished, socially and professionally, for admitting you don’t feel it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Loneliness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Glazer, Tom. (2026, January 16). Most performers don't admit this, because it sounds negative and performers are not supposed to be negative, but when I was on the road, I was lonely. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/most-performers-dont-admit-this-because-it-sounds-90700/
Chicago Style
Glazer, Tom. "Most performers don't admit this, because it sounds negative and performers are not supposed to be negative, but when I was on the road, I was lonely." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/most-performers-dont-admit-this-because-it-sounds-90700/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Most performers don't admit this, because it sounds negative and performers are not supposed to be negative, but when I was on the road, I was lonely." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/most-performers-dont-admit-this-because-it-sounds-90700/. Accessed 26 Feb. 2026.



