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Leadership Quote by Lee Atwater

"Mostly I am sorry for the way I thought of other people. Like a good general, I had treated everyone who wasn't with me as against me"

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A political hitman’s deathbed regret lands with extra force because it’s framed as strategy, not sentiment. Lee Atwater doesn’t apologize for a single act; he indicts a whole operating system: the reflex to sort human beings into allies and enemies. The phrase “Like a good general” is doing double duty. On its face, it flatters his former self as disciplined and effective. Underneath, it exposes the rot of that professionalism: he treated politics as war, and war as a license to dehumanize.

That “mostly” is also telling. It’s a narrow, almost managerial admission, the kind a hard operator can allow himself without fully confessing. He’s sorry for “the way I thought,” not necessarily the things he did. The subtext is that cognition is the first casualty of combative politics: once you adopt a battlefield mindset, cruelty becomes not a moral choice but an organizational necessity. Everyone “who wasn’t with me” becomes “against me,” a binary that wipes out neutrality, complexity, and even basic curiosity. It’s paranoia dressed as leadership.

Context sharpens it. Atwater helped pioneer the modern American campaign style that prized demolition over persuasion, turning culture war grievance into a reliable turnout machine. Reading this now, the line feels less like personal atonement than a warning label for an era he helped manufacture: when politics rewards treating people as targets, the damage doesn’t stay on the opponent. It corrodes the practitioner first.

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Atwater, Lee. (2026, January 15). Mostly I am sorry for the way I thought of other people. Like a good general, I had treated everyone who wasn't with me as against me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/mostly-i-am-sorry-for-the-way-i-thought-of-other-170661/

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Atwater, Lee. "Mostly I am sorry for the way I thought of other people. Like a good general, I had treated everyone who wasn't with me as against me." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/mostly-i-am-sorry-for-the-way-i-thought-of-other-170661/.

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"Mostly I am sorry for the way I thought of other people. Like a good general, I had treated everyone who wasn't with me as against me." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/mostly-i-am-sorry-for-the-way-i-thought-of-other-170661/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.

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Lee Atwater

Lee Atwater (February 27, 1951 - March 29, 1991) was a Politician from USA.

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