"Mostly I am sorry for the way I thought of other people. Like a good general, I had treated everyone who wasn't with me as against me"
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That “mostly” is also telling. It’s a narrow, almost managerial admission, the kind a hard operator can allow himself without fully confessing. He’s sorry for “the way I thought,” not necessarily the things he did. The subtext is that cognition is the first casualty of combative politics: once you adopt a battlefield mindset, cruelty becomes not a moral choice but an organizational necessity. Everyone “who wasn’t with me” becomes “against me,” a binary that wipes out neutrality, complexity, and even basic curiosity. It’s paranoia dressed as leadership.
Context sharpens it. Atwater helped pioneer the modern American campaign style that prized demolition over persuasion, turning culture war grievance into a reliable turnout machine. Reading this now, the line feels less like personal atonement than a warning label for an era he helped manufacture: when politics rewards treating people as targets, the damage doesn’t stay on the opponent. It corrodes the practitioner first.
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"Mostly I am sorry for the way I thought of other people. Like a good general, I had treated everyone who wasn't with me as against me." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/mostly-i-am-sorry-for-the-way-i-thought-of-other-170661/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.








