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"Mother is far too clever to understand anything she does not like"

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A neat little insult dressed up as a compliment, Bennett’s line skewers a particular kind of domestic power: the ability to turn intelligence into selective deafness. “Far too clever” isn’t praise so much as a diagnosis. It suggests a mind agile enough to build airtight reasons, not to understand, but to avoid understanding - a strategic misreading that keeps the world arranged to her preferences.

The trick is in the phrasing “to understand anything she does not like.” Bennett makes “understanding” sound like an act of consent. If Mother dislikes a fact, a feeling, a change in the household order, she doesn’t argue it; she simply renders it unintelligible. The subtext is that cleverness, in family life, often becomes a form of control: you can’t be challenged if you declare the challenger’s reality incoherent. It’s emotional gatekeeping with a smile.

Context matters. Bennett, writing in an England steeped in middle-class respectability and rigid gender roles, frequently maps the micro-politics of the home: who gets to define what’s “reasonable,” what’s “proper,” what’s “real.” Mothers in that world might lack overt authority outside the house, so authority inside it gets exercised through taste, propriety, and judgment. The line lands because it recognizes a familiar modern phenomenon too: motivated reasoning. We don’t just misunderstand inconvenient truths; we recruit our intelligence to make misunderstanding feel principled. Bennett’s mother isn’t stupid. She’s skilled at not being moved.

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Bennett, Arnold. (n.d.). Mother is far too clever to understand anything she does not like. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/mother-is-far-too-clever-to-understand-anything-137344/

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Bennett, Arnold. "Mother is far too clever to understand anything she does not like." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/mother-is-far-too-clever-to-understand-anything-137344/.

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Arnold Bennett (May 27, 1867 - March 27, 1931) was a Novelist from England.

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