"Motherhood has relaxed me in many ways. You learn to deal with crisis. I've become a juggler, I suppose. It's all a big circus, and nobody who knows me believes I can manage, but sometimes I do"
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The metaphor stack does real cultural work. “Juggler” and “circus” aren’t just cute images of busyness; they acknowledge performance. Modern motherhood is often lived in public judgment - friends, family, tabloids, the vague court of opinion - and Seymour names that pressure with a wink. A circus implies spectacle and scrutiny, but also craft: juggling is learned skill, not “natural instinct.” That’s a quiet pushback against the myth that women simply absorb domestic labor with effortless grace.
Then she slips in the most telling line: “nobody who knows me believes I can manage.” It’s self-deprecating, but it also gestures at how competence gets negotiated socially. People “know” you through old narratives - the glamorous actress, the romantic lead - and those narratives don’t easily accommodate maternal logistics. The final beat, “but sometimes I do,” refuses the tidy inspirational ending. It’s a realistic flex: not mastery, but moments of surprising adequacy. That’s the appeal. She’s not selling perfection; she’s admitting that the magic trick is intermittent, and still worth attempting.
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Seymour, Jane. (2026, January 16). Motherhood has relaxed me in many ways. You learn to deal with crisis. I've become a juggler, I suppose. It's all a big circus, and nobody who knows me believes I can manage, but sometimes I do. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/motherhood-has-relaxed-me-in-many-ways-you-learn-136184/
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Seymour, Jane. "Motherhood has relaxed me in many ways. You learn to deal with crisis. I've become a juggler, I suppose. It's all a big circus, and nobody who knows me believes I can manage, but sometimes I do." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/motherhood-has-relaxed-me-in-many-ways-you-learn-136184/.
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"Motherhood has relaxed me in many ways. You learn to deal with crisis. I've become a juggler, I suppose. It's all a big circus, and nobody who knows me believes I can manage, but sometimes I do." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/motherhood-has-relaxed-me-in-many-ways-you-learn-136184/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.








