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Politics & Power Quote by John F. Kennedy

"Mothers all want their sons to grow up to be president, but they don't want them to become politicians in the process"

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Kennedy lands the line like a wink with a warning: America adores the destination (the presidency) and despises the route (politics). The joke works because it names a hypocrisy most people prefer to keep implicit. We teach civic ambition as a kind of clean, upward striving, then recoil at the grubby mechanisms that make collective action possible: bargaining, fundraising, compromise, coalition-building, the trading of favors for votes. In the popular imagination, “politician” isn’t a job; it’s a moral category.

The maternal framing is shrewd. “Mothers” stands in for the nation’s protective self-image, the desire to believe power can be attained without contamination. It’s also a gentle way to call out voters without calling them cynical: who could argue with a mother’s hopes? Kennedy uses that sentimentality to smuggle in a harder truth about democratic life. If we demand leaders who never look political, we incentivize performance over governance: the anti-politician politician, the candidate who campaigns against the very system they’re trying to run.

Context matters. Kennedy governed at a moment when television was refashioning leadership into image, and Cold War stakes made national unity feel urgent. He had to be both insider and idealist, practical and clean. The line distances him from the caricature of the backroom operator while admitting, in plain sight, that the presidency is not won by purity alone. It’s an argument for realism disguised as a quip: democracy requires the messy arts we pretend to hate, and our discomfort doesn’t absolve us from needing them.

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Kennedy, John F. (2026, January 15). Mothers all want their sons to grow up to be president, but they don't want them to become politicians in the process. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/mothers-all-want-their-sons-to-grow-up-to-be-25931/

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Kennedy, John F. "Mothers all want their sons to grow up to be president, but they don't want them to become politicians in the process." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/mothers-all-want-their-sons-to-grow-up-to-be-25931/.

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"Mothers all want their sons to grow up to be president, but they don't want them to become politicians in the process." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/mothers-all-want-their-sons-to-grow-up-to-be-25931/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.

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John F. Kennedy (May 29, 1917 - November 22, 1963) was a President from USA.

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