"Music is amazing. There's some metaphysical comfort where it allows you to be isolated and alone while telling you that you are not alone... truly, the only cure for sadness is to share it with someone else"
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Coyne is selling a paradox musicians live inside: the most intimate art form is often consumed in solitude. He frames music as a kind of metaphysical group chat, a private room that still has other bodies in it. That phrase "isolated and alone while telling you that you are not alone" lands because it describes the modern condition with eerie accuracy: earbuds in, world out, feelings in full surround sound. Music doesn't erase loneliness; it gives it company, a melody-shaped proof that someone else has sat in the same dark.
The subtext is less mystical than pragmatic. Coyne has spent a career turning communal spectacle into emotional safety net - big singalongs, confetti-canon euphoria, songs that feel like they're hand-delivered. When he says "comfort", he's talking about recognition: hearing your own private mess rendered coherent by a stranger. That recognition is social, even when it's happening at 2 a.m. on a phone screen.
His claim that "the only cure for sadness is to share it" pushes against the self-help fantasy of self-sufficiency. It's not "cheer up"; it's "connect". Sharing sadness isn't the same as dumping it - it's translating it into something another person can hold. Music becomes the intermediary, the socially acceptable way to admit you're not fine. In a culture that monetizes positivity and treats vulnerability like content, Coyne argues for a simpler technology: communion.
The subtext is less mystical than pragmatic. Coyne has spent a career turning communal spectacle into emotional safety net - big singalongs, confetti-canon euphoria, songs that feel like they're hand-delivered. When he says "comfort", he's talking about recognition: hearing your own private mess rendered coherent by a stranger. That recognition is social, even when it's happening at 2 a.m. on a phone screen.
His claim that "the only cure for sadness is to share it" pushes against the self-help fantasy of self-sufficiency. It's not "cheer up"; it's "connect". Sharing sadness isn't the same as dumping it - it's translating it into something another person can hold. Music becomes the intermediary, the socially acceptable way to admit you're not fine. In a culture that monetizes positivity and treats vulnerability like content, Coyne argues for a simpler technology: communion.
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| Topic | Music |
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