"Music makes us want to live. You don't know how many times people have told me that they'd been down and depressed and just wanted to die. But then a special song caught their ear and that helped give them renewed strength. That's the power music has"
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The subtext is a quiet contract between artist and listener. She’s describing people confessing their lowest point to her because her songs have made her a safe witness. That intimacy is a cultural achievement: in R&B and hip-hop adjacent spaces where toughness is often currency, Blige built a mainstream language for vulnerability. The “special song” isn’t framed as a miracle cure; it’s a stray lifeline, an interruption. You hear something and your internal script changes for three minutes - long enough to remember you have a body, a past, a tomorrow.
Context matters: Blige emerged in an era when Black women’s interior lives were frequently flattened into archetypes. Her music insisted on mess, desire, faith, relapse, recovery. So when she calls it “power,” she’s also staking a claim for what her audience already knows: that a chorus can be community, and a beat can be a reason to stay.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Blige, Mary J. (2026, January 17). Music makes us want to live. You don't know how many times people have told me that they'd been down and depressed and just wanted to die. But then a special song caught their ear and that helped give them renewed strength. That's the power music has. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/music-makes-us-want-to-live-you-dont-know-how-72708/
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Blige, Mary J. "Music makes us want to live. You don't know how many times people have told me that they'd been down and depressed and just wanted to die. But then a special song caught their ear and that helped give them renewed strength. That's the power music has." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/music-makes-us-want-to-live-you-dont-know-how-72708/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Music makes us want to live. You don't know how many times people have told me that they'd been down and depressed and just wanted to die. But then a special song caught their ear and that helped give them renewed strength. That's the power music has." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/music-makes-us-want-to-live-you-dont-know-how-72708/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.








