"My agent was ambitious for me. But going out and chasing it? No, I'd rather work in my vegetable garden or play with my kid. I guess I'm kind of boring"
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The phrasing does a lot of cultural work. "Chasing it" makes success sound like a skittish animal - something you exhaust yourself trying to corner, often for someone else's satisfaction. She takes the shiny noun out of the sentence entirely: it isn't "fame" or "roles" or "the next big thing". It's just "it", the vague, ever-receding promise the industry sells. That vagueness is the point: once you name the prize, it starts to look negotiable.
"I guess I'm kind of boring" lands as a preemptive defense against the accusation Hollywood keeps ready for anyone who doesn't hustle: ungrateful, unmotivated, irrelevant. Quinlan leans into the label, using self-deprecation as armor. It's a soft way of reclaiming control, especially in an environment that punishes actresses for aging, for prioritizing family, for not turning their lives into content. Underneath the shrug is a value statement: a career can be meaningful without becoming a constant performance, and ambition doesn't have to be the only interesting thing about a person.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Quinlan, Kathleen. (2026, January 16). My agent was ambitious for me. But going out and chasing it? No, I'd rather work in my vegetable garden or play with my kid. I guess I'm kind of boring. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-agent-was-ambitious-for-me-but-going-out-and-113843/
Chicago Style
Quinlan, Kathleen. "My agent was ambitious for me. But going out and chasing it? No, I'd rather work in my vegetable garden or play with my kid. I guess I'm kind of boring." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-agent-was-ambitious-for-me-but-going-out-and-113843/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My agent was ambitious for me. But going out and chasing it? No, I'd rather work in my vegetable garden or play with my kid. I guess I'm kind of boring." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-agent-was-ambitious-for-me-but-going-out-and-113843/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.


