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Daily Inspiration Quote by Leymah Gbowee

"My answer to her: I never will"

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A refusal that sounds almost too simple to matter is exactly why it lands. “My answer to her: I never will” is the kind of line that doesn’t argue, doesn’t negotiate, doesn’t perform civility for an audience that has already decided you should bend. It’s a sentence built like a closed door: short, final, and personal.

Coming from Leymah Gbowee, the intent is rarely abstract. Her activism in Liberia was forged in a reality where women were expected to absorb chaos quietly, to defer to men with guns, to keep families afloat while power brokered itself in blood. In that context, “I never will” reads as a strategy, not a mood: the refusal to return to a role that demands silence, the refusal to be re-absorbed into the social script after a moment of resistance. The “her” matters, too. Gbowee’s work is clear-eyed about how patriarchy isn’t only enforced by men; it’s also policed by women tasked with maintaining respectability, tradition, and “how things are done”. The subtext is an internal community conflict: solidarity isn’t automatic, and liberation often starts with disappointing someone close to you.

The rhetoric does its work through restraint. No justification is offered, because justification is the trap: once you start explaining, you’re asking permission. Gbowee’s line signals a broader ethic of noncompliance that powered her movement - a politics of women saying no, and meaning it, until the world has to rearrange itself around that answer.

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SourceLeymah Gbowee with Carol Mithers, Mighty Be Our Powers: How Sisterhood, Prayer, and Sex Changed a Nation at War (2011)
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Gbowee, Leymah. (2026, February 15). My answer to her: I never will. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-answer-to-her-i-never-will-185440/

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Gbowee, Leymah. "My answer to her: I never will." FixQuotes. February 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-answer-to-her-i-never-will-185440/.

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"My answer to her: I never will." FixQuotes, 15 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-answer-to-her-i-never-will-185440/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.

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Leymah Gbowee

Leymah Gbowee (born February 1, 1972) is a Activist from Liberia.

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