"My big thing is to make sure the lipsticks taste good when you kiss. And, well, so far they taste pretty darn good"
About this Quote
The intent is clear: eroticize the mundane without sounding crude. “My big thing” frames him as hands-on, almost quality-control earnest, while “make sure” signals responsibility rather than lust. The joke is that the “testing” implied here is obviously not happening in a lab; it’s happening in the romantic imagination. “When you kiss” invites the listener into a scenario with built-in stakes: attraction, closeness, approval. It’s marketing dressed as a confession.
Subtext-wise, there’s also a sly recalibration of the gaze. A male actor talking about lipstick could read as patronizing; Dempsey dodges that by focusing on an interaction where the wearer retains agency. The lipstick isn’t for him, exactly; it’s for the moment the wearer chooses. Still, it’s undeniably hetero-coded: the product’s value is validated through a partner’s sensory experience.
Context matters: coming from a famously “dreamy” TV star, this isn’t expertise, it’s persona deployment. The folksy “pretty darn good” keeps it midwestern-clean, selling desire while laundering it through charm. It’s how you make a beauty pitch feel like playful locker-room truth without ever sounding like you’re in a locker room.
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| Topic | Romantic |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Dempsey, Patrick. (2026, January 15). My big thing is to make sure the lipsticks taste good when you kiss. And, well, so far they taste pretty darn good. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-big-thing-is-to-make-sure-the-lipsticks-taste-163643/
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Dempsey, Patrick. "My big thing is to make sure the lipsticks taste good when you kiss. And, well, so far they taste pretty darn good." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-big-thing-is-to-make-sure-the-lipsticks-taste-163643/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My big thing is to make sure the lipsticks taste good when you kiss. And, well, so far they taste pretty darn good." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-big-thing-is-to-make-sure-the-lipsticks-taste-163643/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.






