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Success Quote by Jimmy Chamberlin

"My brother and I had a real love-hate relationship with my success. There was some bitterness there that I didn't understand until recently, but I told him that if I ever did a record I wanted him to play on it"

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Success, in Chamberlin's telling, isn’t a victory lap; it’s a stress test. The phrase "real love-hate relationship with my success" shifts the spotlight away from fame-as-glamour and toward fame-as-family weather system. It’s not just that his brother had feelings about the success; the success itself becomes a third character in the relationship, something both brothers have to negotiate around.

The most revealing move is the admission of delayed comprehension: "bitterness there that I didn't understand until recently". That’s the adult perspective arriving late to a childhood or early-career wound. Chamberlin isn’t confessing guilt so much as naming how ambition can distort empathy. When one sibling becomes the “successful” one, every interaction risks being reread as hierarchy: who escaped, who stayed, who got seen.

Then he pivots to repair, and it’s telling that the repair is musical: "if I ever did a record I wanted him to play on it". Not a check, not a shout-out, not a sentimental apology. An invitation into the work. In musician terms, that’s intimacy with stakes: putting someone’s sound on your name, giving them a permanent imprint on the artifact that marks your success. It’s also a quiet rebuttal to the idea that achievement is purely individual. Chamberlin frames collaboration as reconciliation, and credit as a form of love - one that doesn’t erase bitterness, but finally gives it somewhere to go besides silence.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Chamberlin, Jimmy. (2026, January 16). My brother and I had a real love-hate relationship with my success. There was some bitterness there that I didn't understand until recently, but I told him that if I ever did a record I wanted him to play on it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-brother-and-i-had-a-real-love-hate-87051/

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Chamberlin, Jimmy. "My brother and I had a real love-hate relationship with my success. There was some bitterness there that I didn't understand until recently, but I told him that if I ever did a record I wanted him to play on it." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-brother-and-i-had-a-real-love-hate-87051/.

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"My brother and I had a real love-hate relationship with my success. There was some bitterness there that I didn't understand until recently, but I told him that if I ever did a record I wanted him to play on it." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-brother-and-i-had-a-real-love-hate-87051/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Jimmy Chamberlin

Jimmy Chamberlin (born June 10, 1964) is a Musician from USA.

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