"My brother Jim and I saw our father go into the jails and pray with the inmates Sunday after Sunday. He prayed with both blacks and whites. If we ever repeated any slurs we heard on the playground, he'd tell us very softly, "I don't want to hear those words.""
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The jail setting does double work. It signals a father willing to cross boundaries most respectable communities treat as contamination: criminals, confinement, stigma. Prayer becomes less about piety than proximity. He “went into” the jails, a verb that carries risk and intent, and he prayed with “both blacks and whites,” a plainspoken line that, in its understatement, points to a Southern context where that simple pairing was politically charged. The father’s faith functions as an integrating force in a segregated world, an everyday refusal to accept the social map as moral law.
Then the real psychological lever: the response to slurs is “very softly.” No theatrics, no rage, no debate club rebuttal. The softness is authority. “I don’t want to hear those words” isn’t an abstract lesson about equality; it’s an immediate boundary, teaching that racism isn’t just wrong out there - it’s unwelcome in the home, in the mouth, in the family’s self-conception. Moore’s intent is testimonial: to show how prejudice is interrupted early, not by grand ideology, but by a parent’s calm, consistent veto.
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Moore, Charles. (2026, January 15). My brother Jim and I saw our father go into the jails and pray with the inmates Sunday after Sunday. He prayed with both blacks and whites. If we ever repeated any slurs we heard on the playground, he'd tell us very softly, "I don't want to hear those words.". FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-brother-jim-and-i-saw-our-father-go-into-the-168814/
Chicago Style
Moore, Charles. "My brother Jim and I saw our father go into the jails and pray with the inmates Sunday after Sunday. He prayed with both blacks and whites. If we ever repeated any slurs we heard on the playground, he'd tell us very softly, "I don't want to hear those words."." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-brother-jim-and-i-saw-our-father-go-into-the-168814/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My brother Jim and I saw our father go into the jails and pray with the inmates Sunday after Sunday. He prayed with both blacks and whites. If we ever repeated any slurs we heard on the playground, he'd tell us very softly, "I don't want to hear those words."." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-brother-jim-and-i-saw-our-father-go-into-the-168814/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.









