"My candle burns at both ends; it will not last the night; but ah, my foes, and oh, my friends - it gives a lovely light!"
About this Quote
The line “it will not last the night” isn’t tragedy; it’s logistics. Millay drains melodrama out of mortality and replaces it with timekeeping. The pivot to “my foes” and “my friends” is the real knife. She’s not speaking to a private diary; she’s addressing an audience split between scolds and admirers, the people who condemn her as reckless and the people who cheer her as liberated. By naming both, she controls the frame: you can judge me, but you are still watching.
The dash work is stagecraft. “But ah” and “oh” are theatrical little sighs, a performer’s intake of breath, and then the punchline: “it gives a lovely light!” The exclamation is not naive; it’s defiant. Millay’s subtext is that a short, bright life can be its own argument - not a plea for forgiveness, but a claim to aesthetic and personal authority in a culture eager to turn women’s intensity into cautionary tale.
Quote Details
| Topic | Live in the Moment |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: A Few Figs from Thistles: Poems and Sonnets (Edna St. Vincent Millay, 1922)
Evidence: MY candle bums at both ends; It will not last the night; But ah, my foes, and oh, my friends- It gives a lovely light! (Page 12 (PDF pagination in Internet Archive scan)). This is the poem "FIRST FIG" by Edna St. Vincent Millay. The scan is of a 1922 "New and Enlarged Edition" published by Frank Shay; it prints the quoted quatrain under the heading FIRST FIG on page 12 of the PDF. Bibliographic records indicate an earlier Frank Shay edition dated 1920 (same book/contents), but I am only able to directly verify the text and exact page placement from the 1922 primary-source scan provided here; confirming the exact wording/page in the 1920 printing would require viewing a scan or copy of the 1920 edition. Other candidates (1) Orange Coast Magazine (2000)76.0% ... My candle burns at both ends/It will not last the night/But, ah, my foes, and oh, my friends/It gives a lovely li... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Millay, Edna St. Vincent. (2026, February 20). My candle burns at both ends; it will not last the night; but ah, my foes, and oh, my friends - it gives a lovely light! FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-candle-burns-at-both-ends-it-will-not-last-the-140605/
Chicago Style
Millay, Edna St. Vincent. "My candle burns at both ends; it will not last the night; but ah, my foes, and oh, my friends - it gives a lovely light!" FixQuotes. February 20, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-candle-burns-at-both-ends-it-will-not-last-the-140605/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My candle burns at both ends; it will not last the night; but ah, my foes, and oh, my friends - it gives a lovely light!" FixQuotes, 20 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-candle-burns-at-both-ends-it-will-not-last-the-140605/. Accessed 1 Mar. 2026.









