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Life & Wisdom Quote by Edna St. Vincent Millay

"My candle burns at both ends; it will not last the night; but ah, my foes, and oh, my friends - it gives a lovely light!"

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A single sentence turns self-destruction into a dare, and it lands because Millay refuses the respectable moral of thrift. The image is domestic, even cozy: a candle. Then she breaks the rules of the metaphor in the first clause, making the “both ends” burn not an accident but a choice. That choice carries the jazz-age electricity of Millay’s moment - a young poet-celebrity in the 1920s, living fast in public while women’s independence was both newly possible and newly policed. She writes like someone aware the crowd is already forming around her life.

The line “it will not last the night” isn’t tragedy; it’s logistics. Millay drains melodrama out of mortality and replaces it with timekeeping. The pivot to “my foes” and “my friends” is the real knife. She’s not speaking to a private diary; she’s addressing an audience split between scolds and admirers, the people who condemn her as reckless and the people who cheer her as liberated. By naming both, she controls the frame: you can judge me, but you are still watching.

The dash work is stagecraft. “But ah” and “oh” are theatrical little sighs, a performer’s intake of breath, and then the punchline: “it gives a lovely light!” The exclamation is not naive; it’s defiant. Millay’s subtext is that a short, bright life can be its own argument - not a plea for forgiveness, but a claim to aesthetic and personal authority in a culture eager to turn women’s intensity into cautionary tale.

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TopicLive in the Moment
Source
Verified source: A Few Figs from Thistles: Poems and Sonnets (Edna St. Vincent Millay, 1922)
Text match: 98.21%   Provider: Cross-Reference
Evidence:
MY candle bums at both ends; It will not last the night; But ah, my foes, and oh, my friends- It gives a lovely light! (Page 12 (PDF pagination in Internet Archive scan)). This is the poem "FIRST FIG" by Edna St. Vincent Millay. The scan is of a 1922 "New and Enlarged Edition" published by Frank Shay; it prints the quoted quatrain under the heading FIRST FIG on page 12 of the PDF. Bibliographic records indicate an earlier Frank Shay edition dated 1920 (same book/contents), but I am only able to directly verify the text and exact page placement from the 1922 primary-source scan provided here; confirming the exact wording/page in the 1920 printing would require viewing a scan or copy of the 1920 edition.
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Millay, Edna St. Vincent. (2026, February 20). My candle burns at both ends; it will not last the night; but ah, my foes, and oh, my friends - it gives a lovely light! FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-candle-burns-at-both-ends-it-will-not-last-the-140605/

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Millay, Edna St. Vincent. "My candle burns at both ends; it will not last the night; but ah, my foes, and oh, my friends - it gives a lovely light!" FixQuotes. February 20, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-candle-burns-at-both-ends-it-will-not-last-the-140605/.

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"My candle burns at both ends; it will not last the night; but ah, my foes, and oh, my friends - it gives a lovely light!" FixQuotes, 20 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-candle-burns-at-both-ends-it-will-not-last-the-140605/. Accessed 1 Mar. 2026.

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Edna St. Vincent Millay (February 22, 1892 - October 19, 1950) was a Author from USA.

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