"My dearest friend in the movement is Jack Nichols. If there were no such thing as gay or straight, we would still talk and share experiences till the end of time"
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The second line turns the screw. “If there were no such thing as gay or straight” sounds like a utopian erase-the-labels fantasy, but Weinberg doesn’t use it to dodge the realities of power. He uses it to locate something deeper than identity categories: recognition. The subtext is that orientation matters because society makes it matter, yet human connection isn’t reducible to the taxonomy. In a culture obsessed with sorting people into legible boxes, Weinberg offers a provocation: even in a world where the labels vanish, the conversations would continue. Not because difference disappears, but because experience remains worth exchanging.
Context matters: Nichols was a frontline organizer, one of the first to picket for gay rights in the US. Weinberg pairing “movement” with “till the end of time” elevates activism from a tactical campaign to a lifelong moral commitment. The quote works because it refuses the false choice between identity politics and humanism; it insists you can fight as a category and love as a person.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Weinberg, George. (2026, January 17). My dearest friend in the movement is Jack Nichols. If there were no such thing as gay or straight, we would still talk and share experiences till the end of time. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-dearest-friend-in-the-movement-is-jack-nichols-53481/
Chicago Style
Weinberg, George. "My dearest friend in the movement is Jack Nichols. If there were no such thing as gay or straight, we would still talk and share experiences till the end of time." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-dearest-friend-in-the-movement-is-jack-nichols-53481/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My dearest friend in the movement is Jack Nichols. If there were no such thing as gay or straight, we would still talk and share experiences till the end of time." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-dearest-friend-in-the-movement-is-jack-nichols-53481/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.

