"My dearly beloved if I am to die today and never see the sweet face of you I want you to know that I am no great man and am lucky to have such a woman as you"
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The line is built on a tension between performance and surrender. "My dearly beloved" opens like a sermon or a vow, but what follows refuses grandeur. The sentence runs on, breathless, as if he's writing faster than fate. That haste is its own rhetoric: not polished, not quotable, just urgent. Even the frontier's celebrity machine can't smooth out the fear behind "if I am to die today."
The subtext is an inversion of the period's masculine ideal. Instead of the stoic hero facing death with swagger, Hickok frames himself as "lucky" - a word that quietly admits how much of his life has been chance, timing, and surviving one more day. He doesn't say, "remember me"; he says, in effect, don't mistake the reputation for the person. In a culture that rewarded men for being feared, he asks to be seen as someone capable of tenderness, dependency, and gratitude. The intent is intimate triage: if the bullet comes, let the last version of him be this one.
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| Topic | Romantic |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hickok, Wild Bill. (2026, January 16). My dearly beloved if I am to die today and never see the sweet face of you I want you to know that I am no great man and am lucky to have such a woman as you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-dearly-beloved-if-i-am-to-die-today-and-never-100072/
Chicago Style
Hickok, Wild Bill. "My dearly beloved if I am to die today and never see the sweet face of you I want you to know that I am no great man and am lucky to have such a woman as you." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-dearly-beloved-if-i-am-to-die-today-and-never-100072/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My dearly beloved if I am to die today and never see the sweet face of you I want you to know that I am no great man and am lucky to have such a woman as you." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-dearly-beloved-if-i-am-to-die-today-and-never-100072/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.







