"My door was open part of the time, and part of the time I tried to get a nap and their voices annoyed me, and I closed it. I kept it open in summer more or less, and closed in winter"
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That’s the intent: to make the listener stop looking for intent. The line’s power is its refusal to carry drama, even as we know the cultural frame insists on drama. Borden is a celebrity in the oldest American way - not for talent, but for proximity to a notorious narrative - and the quote functions like a soft-focus filter over a hard-edged public image. She offers irritation at “their voices,” a private grievance small enough to seem harmless, yet pointed enough to imply distance from others in the house. The subtext is not “I’m innocent,” but “I’m mundane.” Mundanity becomes a defense.
The phrasing also quietly splits the world into porous and sealed spaces: open door equals exposure, closed door equals control. The nap is doing extra work here, signaling vulnerability (sleep) while justifying withdrawal (annoyance). Seasonality adds a second, socially acceptable reason to close off access: not secrecy, just weather.
Context does the heavy lifting. In a case where the household’s sounds, movements, and sightlines mattered, she talks like a person inventorying ambiance. It’s a remarkably canny way to smuggle a boundary dispute into a weather report.
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| Topic | Life |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Borden, Lizzie Andrew. (2026, January 15). My door was open part of the time, and part of the time I tried to get a nap and their voices annoyed me, and I closed it. I kept it open in summer more or less, and closed in winter. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-door-was-open-part-of-the-time-and-part-of-the-165387/
Chicago Style
Borden, Lizzie Andrew. "My door was open part of the time, and part of the time I tried to get a nap and their voices annoyed me, and I closed it. I kept it open in summer more or less, and closed in winter." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-door-was-open-part-of-the-time-and-part-of-the-165387/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My door was open part of the time, and part of the time I tried to get a nap and their voices annoyed me, and I closed it. I kept it open in summer more or less, and closed in winter." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-door-was-open-part-of-the-time-and-part-of-the-165387/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






