"My father also happened to be an intellectual, as learned, literate, informed, and curious as anyone I have known. Unobtrusively and casually, he was my wise and gentle teacher"
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The sentence stacks descriptors - “learned, literate, informed, and curious” - but the climax is “curious.” That’s the tell. Curiosity is the trait that can’t be faked with status, and it’s the one most aligned with Tobin’s own professional identity: a life spent asking how systems work, why they break, and what assumptions hide inside “common sense.” The father is framed less as a source of answers than as a model of attention.
“Wise and gentle teacher” completes the argument. Teaching here is not instruction-by-authority; it’s instruction-by-presence. The subtext is a philosophy of mentorship: the most lasting education comes not from being lectured, but from being invited into a way of moving through the world - reading, noticing, listening, wondering. Given Tobin’s era (immigrant ambition, mid-century reverence for expertise, then late-century cynicism about it), the line also reads as a defense of the private intellectual life: decency and learning as quiet virtues, passed down without fanfare, but with permanent effect.
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Tobin, James. (2026, January 17). My father also happened to be an intellectual, as learned, literate, informed, and curious as anyone I have known. Unobtrusively and casually, he was my wise and gentle teacher. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-also-happened-to-be-an-intellectual-as-49748/
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Tobin, James. "My father also happened to be an intellectual, as learned, literate, informed, and curious as anyone I have known. Unobtrusively and casually, he was my wise and gentle teacher." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-also-happened-to-be-an-intellectual-as-49748/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My father also happened to be an intellectual, as learned, literate, informed, and curious as anyone I have known. Unobtrusively and casually, he was my wise and gentle teacher." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-also-happened-to-be-an-intellectual-as-49748/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.




