"My father passed away a couple of years ago, but he was very old. He was almost a 100 years old. And, you know, he had a very good life. He came to America and he had a good life"
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The line "And, you know" is doing cultural work. It invites the listener into a shared understanding of what a "good" death is supposed to look like: late, after a full life, with the moral paperwork in order. By insisting on "a very good life" twice, he’s performing a kind of protective narration, the story you tell yourself so the sadness doesn’t turn into rage or unfairness. It’s also a generational posture: stoicism as respect, restraint as sincerity.
Then comes the turn that gives the quote its American charge: "He came to America". In a few plain words, Walken ties private mourning to the immigrant success story, suggesting a life validated by arrival and stability. The subtext is gratitude with a shadow: the father’s life becomes legible through the national myth of opportunity, as if contentment can be summarized by geography and survival. Walken’s simplicity reads less like Hallmark and more like a working actor’s instinct for the unadorned line that lands. The power is in what he refuses: no eulogy, no lesson, just a life accounted for, and a son trying to keep it intact.
Quote Details
| Topic | Father |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Walken, Christopher. (2026, January 14). My father passed away a couple of years ago, but he was very old. He was almost a 100 years old. And, you know, he had a very good life. He came to America and he had a good life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-passed-away-a-couple-of-years-ago-but-64734/
Chicago Style
Walken, Christopher. "My father passed away a couple of years ago, but he was very old. He was almost a 100 years old. And, you know, he had a very good life. He came to America and he had a good life." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-passed-away-a-couple-of-years-ago-but-64734/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My father passed away a couple of years ago, but he was very old. He was almost a 100 years old. And, you know, he had a very good life. He came to America and he had a good life." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-passed-away-a-couple-of-years-ago-but-64734/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




