"My father started me singing in church"
About this Quote
The intent feels modest on purpose. Actors are expected to narrate their beginnings with mythology - a break, a mentor, a moment of destiny. Kelley flips that script: the catalyst isn’t ambition, it’s upbringing. The subtext is that performance came before career, before ego. His father "started" him, a verb that implies direction, even gentle coercion, and also a kind of blessing. You can hear the old American bargain: you contribute your voice to the group, and the group gives you belonging.
For an actor best known as Dr. McCoy, the humanist counterweight to Spock’s logic, the church detail lands as character-revealing without trying. It suggests an early intimacy with moral language, with the cadences of sincerity and doubt. It also nods to a pipeline many mid-century performers shared: religious spaces as one of the few places where ordinary kids could rehearse being seen, and learn that a voice can carry farther than a life.
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Kelley, DeForest. (2026, January 16). My father started me singing in church. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-started-me-singing-in-church-86704/
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Kelley, DeForest. "My father started me singing in church." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-started-me-singing-in-church-86704/.
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"My father started me singing in church." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-started-me-singing-in-church-86704/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.





